My first was back when i was 20. It started out pretty tame i was to be silent and kneel beside his chair while he watched his tv show. if i didn't he'd pin me to the ground so fast it made my head spin and if i fought he'd reach for the rope that always happened to be nearby and he'd leave me there till the show was over.
there were minor rules; if i was late geting to his house he'd tie me to his bed and leave me alone for the time i was late. i was expected to be willing to have sex or foreplay anywhere anytime i was with him.
My current Master is fully dominant and the punishments are more painful but the rewards are huge. i am leaving him however, i don't trust him as well as i did in the beginning and part of me is scared to death of the emptiness that will follow BUT i am going to look up my first and see where it goes. We broke up because we weren't mature enough and i had moved away but i always felt safe no matter what he did. the trust we had was strong. i only hope he's still single and would want a second chance.