Quote Originally Posted by Kadence View Post
I'm hoping this community, being so incredibly understanding and helpful towards subs like myself, might be able to offer some advice. Have there been any subs/doms here in a similar situation? How did you keep your relationship fresh and engaging? Am I being ridiculous in worrying about my personal image, even with a Master I think I can trust?

Any input you guys could give me would be most appreciated. Thank you!
Okay I'm going to be the bad one around here I suppose. You aren't comfy sending photos, then don't send photos. I spend 8 years pulling photos and videos of me down off the internet, because one of my previous Masters decided to post them all over the place.

I do not send photo's on line, not cropped, not blurred, not nothing. No Pictures, No web cams, no nothing. If I want someone to see me, I meet them. If I'm serious about knowing them, I'm going to want to meet them anyway. On line only submission isn't for me. While I can understand this medium being good for someone for a while, it can no way compare to the feel of his hands on your body.

No you aren't insane for worrying about her personal image, If you aren't worried about it, no one else will be either. being submissive does not negate your personal responsibility.

I can't help with how to keep things fresh and new that happen all by itself in most relationships.