Easy solution....work on the trust in your relationship on both parties .....and sounds like it means alot to you....kinda like a hard limit...hint hint.Between trust,respect and compromises,things have their own way of working out best for each relationhip.Every person every relationship is special and no one on the outside can make the final decision on what works best for you.Talk,trust etc in the relationship is key to yall's relationship.Only you know whats best (and him) for the better and happiness for the both of you...