a bit of an impass... suggestions?

[openwide]

DJ, much thanks. I think you're right that I need to keep easing into things. The 'game's stage was set before actually just like you suggested. I made a nice dinner, roommates were gone, bottle of wine, candles etc. Presented the game as a sexy little surprise. It went well. I guess my problem is this. Easing into something like fisting or flogging is a bit daunting. Seems like it would take forever haha.

You're right that now is the best time... good point that I hadn't considered. I'll keep at it.

[pantiwaste]

Communicate...communicate...communicate!!! Take it from one who did not do so for 25 years of marriage. If you need something in your intimacy that you are afraid to bring up for fear of alienating affections then you will not have a happy, satisfying relationship. I finally told my spouse of my submissive needs. She has accepted the concept and has taken the initiative to research and learn. I will need to wait to see how deeply she chooses to play and I am committed to accepting what she chooses.