Female dysfunction...thoughts?

[fetishdj]

All women react in different ways to stimulation and sometimes a lack of an ability to cum could simply be because he isn't quite hitting the right places. It could also be due to not taking enough time to make sure you are fully ready.

A lot of it is patience, perserverance and trial and error. Eventually you will find out what works and what does not.

[jeanne]

You state that you feel self-conscious. For me, that was my normal sexual state for years. And yes, I rarely had an orgasm with another. Somewhere along the way I quit feeling that way, starting feeling more comfortable with myself and recognized that I was beautiful - if only to myself and God. And the orgasms began to come easier.

Perhaps as the self-conscious feelings abate, you'll be more able to cum. Remind yourself that if you were not a lovely person, your Dom wouldn't be with you. Most of all, love yourself.