Originally posted by Claire:
I have just accepted that I have certain wants and needs and certain beliefs and they don't have to be completely consistent.
I don't think they have to be inconsistent. One thing feminism argues for is choice. If you choose submission, rather than have it forced on you who is to argue? If on the other hand you you choose to Domme, who can say anything. It is your choice.


I read an article a Dom wrote about having a black sub. He asked her if she had a problem calling him Master, and Him calling her slave. She told him no. He thought about it for a while and decided that she would just call him Sir and He would call her slut. It turned out He had a problem with it. To her slavery was something that happened long ago and had no bearing on her present relationship, which was her choice.