Hello, morganlefay. Welcome to the family.

Quote Originally Posted by Tojo
Welcome, Morgan.

Somehow I think you know the answer to those questions...

I have a question myself- why would anyone associate with such a 'Dom?'


Tojo
Tojo, has taken the words right out of my mouth.

I think you use the description "dom" rather loosely here, too. Although, I do agree, every relationship is different. I used to chat regularly, on line, with a lady who used to actually enjoy being beaten up; I mean black and blue beaten up. That's a hard on for me to fathom, but I guess everyone's different.

Remember too the three pillars of BDSM: Safe, sane, and consensual. It sounds to me, although I don't have his side of if, like at least two of those components were missing.

I wish you well in the future.

Alex