I am not disabled, but being 7 months pregnant has definitely required us to adapt our play. So we just do what we can do.

First, there is the belly.... which makes positioning more challenging on a daily basis. Also, if I lie flat on my back for too long I can get dizzy.

Breast bondage is out entirely.

My pain responses are completely out of whack... everything is more sensitive. The other day Master gave me what he thought was a playful slap on the ass, and it brought me to tears.

My libido is up and down like mad.

We have done very little impact play lately. Clothes pins are still fun.

My emotions are crazy too.... bursting into tears after an orgasm is not unusual.

But... at least I don't have morning sickness anymore, which had me running to the bathroom all the time earlier in my pregnancy.

So we just adapt... we do what we can do, and are happy to be able to share whatever we can with each other.

When you have a long-term partner, no matter what there are going to be times where one or the other of you are less able to do certain things. You get sick, you get injured, you get pregnant... you get old. If your relationship is just based on BDSM sex, then it becomes a problem... but when you have a deeper connection you grow closer and get through it.