Quote Originally Posted by thrall View Post
Alright....conundrum


Being silent with questions that need to be asked......or being silent with the answers that need to be given....

If you don't ask the hard questions and stay silent.....it doesn't cause the problems.....but if you do ask the questions.....the messenger may be killed....

You are encouraged to ask questions........just not some questions...

its a catch 22.....a no win situation....
Both thrall - if you don't ask because you're afraid of the answer that will be a constant sore as well. And the messenger should never be killed - lol.

Besides - if there is openness - then the reality ought to be that (as Tom said) even if you don't like the question - or the answer - at least it's in the open where together you can work on the issue to come to a place where both can live with the truth, however hard it is.