Help? I have been talking to my guy on the phone( as He is in NJ and I in Minnesota) for almost 3 months for hours at a time. the other day he told me something he did a yr ago and he thought I judged him for doing it , when me being a newbie, was just trying to absorb it. Now as a female we are so emotionally different and I was feeling jealous because we have not even been together yet and I tried to tell him it is hard to hear for me. What can I do to reassure him that I accept his past afterall I can not do anything about it. Help?