your take on the difference between Top, Dom, or Master and bottom, sub and slave

[Tojo]

Yes that's exactly how I see myself, an untrained Dom. Or maybe just a guy who likes playing around a bit & isn't happy with being labelled in what I do.

The girls I play with are certainly no less important than I am, in my mind what I do is for them. As for them being lesser beings, no one who knew them would ever say that!

One other thing to remember with all these categories people are so free with, no two relationships are the same. It seems to be a trend in the community that people should act in a particular way & play a role to suit the 'movement' rather than the special relationship they're in with that one person.

We have little enough freedom in everyday life- no bugger is going to take away any more of mine.

Tojo

[Mad Lews]

Yes that's exactly how I see myself, an untrained Dom. Or maybe just a guy who likes playing around a bit & isn't happy with being labelled in what I do.

Tojo

Hi Tojo
Yes a responsive chord there, It may just be my passive aggressive oppositional disorder but I think I resent the idea of being a "trained Dom." it seems to lack originality might even be seen as predictable and almost tame. Then again mayhap I'm misunderstanding the concept that's happened before.
Don't get me wrong I believe in SSC but I don't think that takes much more than an appreciation of common sense (which I guess isn't that common) and respect for your playmates.

Hi subwife
I'll try to be a bit more visible if you keep writin those hot little tales
Mad