your take on the difference between Top, Dom, or Master and bottom, sub and slave

[Sir_Russell]

Thanks for the feed back.

What I was defining was the different levels of commitment to the life. I was trained after I entered the life by a society that has its roots in europe and a couple of hundred years old.

I have no problem with anyone finding their niche in the life at all. I though take the life very seriously, therefore I am safer to play with then a weekend warrior that is sceneing.

[Nikita]

Thanks for the feed back.

What I was defining was the different levels of commitment to the life. I was trained after I entered the life by a society that has its roots in europe and a couple of hundred years old.

I have no problem with anyone finding their niche in the life at all. I though take the life very seriously, therefore I am safer to play with then a weekend warrior that is sceneing.

That information about your training makes me view the post in a different light.

[Tojo]

I have no argument with terms defining roles, apart from the fact that I think we need to remember that we're also about having fun.

I'd hate to put new people off by too much rigidity, I think relationships can change at time goes on, what's important is that both care about each other.

There's got to be a balance between being serious & having fun- that's my mission, to work that out for myself. I couldn't care less what my girls call me, I find that if I'm deserving of a title they'll happily use it.

Tojo