Russell's description of how he utilizes bathroom control definitely sounds enticing...and humiliating as well.

Unfortunately, because we weren't r/l, we had to take a more subtle approach to bathroom control. I was restricted to using the bathroom every 2-3 hours (depending on his mood lol). Of course there were consequences to not making it on time and we took things a little further a time or two. But that's too embarrassing to mention here and now!

I can understand the appeal of bathroom control...especially in long distance relationships. For me, I yearn for that control in my day to day life. Everything doesn't have to be sexual for me. (not that it doesn't hurt, mind you!) Giving up that control to him each day, especially on days we couldn't talk that often, it just always helped me to be mindful of my submission to him.