Quote Originally Posted by Timberwolf View Post
This came up in a chat I had the other day and I thought I'd ask here. For those of you who play both sides of the fence in more ways than one ;-) I was just curious, are there certain combinations that don't appeal to you in terms of combining gender with Dom/sub? Meaning:

A Dominant, other sex partner.
A Dominant, same sex partner.
A submissive, other sex partner.
A submissive, same sex partner.

Do all four appeal to you or are there some that do not? I was talking with a bisexual girl the other day who said she enjoyed submitting to men but liked her women more vanilla, and I was curious how others felt on this.
Hello All~

Timberwolf Great Topic I think, with a lot of interesting responses and points of view. I don't term myself a Switch, but perhaps I am in a sense anyways? The skills first *M* instilled in me, and the vast experiences I was exposed to, gave me a bit of a twist on things I think <G>. Though i am definantly a Power Shifter.

For Your questions I'd answer; All of the above on a Person by Person basis. In my being a PanSexual Polyamorous sort, sex of a Person does not matter or determine who we are to eachother from my standpoint anyways <shrugs>. It is First *Who We Each Are* as PPL, then the Relationship between us that does that, or makes that determination. *To me* PPL are PPL. I have been and remain Open to all possibilities, from a Growth standpoint. I don't judge Anyone based on their sex, or judge Anyone period. Though I do my best to utilize good judgement in relating to and with Others. And I am a very Honest and Open Person. So what does not, or may not, "appeal" to me, has not to do with the sex of a Person at all, but Who that Person is to and with me, and I to and with them.

I don't know if this helps or clarifies another possibility for You?

Respectfully~SidheWolf