What are your switch preferences?

[Mistress_pet]

-Do you feel the urge to dom and sub a single person at the same time? Maybe at different times during the same scene?

I, like a few others it seems, have trouble Domming and subbing for the same person. Even the thought of it just feels odd to me.

-Do you dom and sub at the same time, but with different partners (I'm a sub for this person, but a dom for this person)?

I'm just beginning to explore that. My boyfriend is my dom and he's allowing me to explore my switch side with another girl.

-Do you take turns with your partner (tonight, I'll be the boss, tomorrow night, you be the boss)?

Not really...when we do "play" (have an actual scene) he's always the boss.

-Do you feel like a dom/sub for long periods of time, then feel the need to switch again (i.e. feeling like being the sub for weeks/months/years then kind of feeling dom-my for awhile)?

Most definitely. I have times when I want to be the one in charge, but there are times when I get hot and tingly thinking about being tied up and helpless. *drools*

M_p

[ursula]

-Do you feel the urge to dom and sub a single person at the same time? Maybe at different times during the same scene?

It actually doesn't depend on the person themselves, but really it depends on both the mood I'm in and how well they respond to it.

-Do you dom and sub at the same time, but with different partners (I'm a sub for this person, but a dom for this person)?

Nope, I'm a one-woman show right now.

-Do you take turns with your partner (tonight, I'll be the boss, tomorrow night, you be the boss)?

We take turns, but it's never planned.

-Do you feel like a dom/sub for long periods of time, then feel the need to switch again (i.e. feeling like being the sub for weeks/months/years then kind of feeling dom-my for awhile)?

Nope, I honestly enjoy both equally almost all the time : )