I think in many ways the Dom perhaps communicated his "possessiveness." This post , which cream shared with us several days ago, in some ways indicated that to me at that time. May be how I interrupted it but I do believe the problem here may be more one of style then anything else. From the information that cream has shared, throughout the forum, she is a switch, which means that on some levels she doesn't wish to give up complete control. That is fully acceptable, for the right Dom. The Dom, knowing she is a switch, may be asking for a bit much, especially so early in the relationship...

Think perhaps both need to take a step back and see if their "kinks/choices" match up or not...