experienced sub/new dom

[Jadetiger]

Jazzman I am currently a switch who is trying to figure out if she is Sub of Dom.

My pet is much more experienced than I am. I spent 5 days on the web trying to find out what submissive men want. Like you I was worried I would not be able to fulfill his needs. I will give you the only advice on the web that I found useful. Enjoy yourself. Whatever you come up with make sure it brings you pleasure. She is there to serve your needs. If she feels like she is meeting your needs she will be happy.

I must admit my pervy mind has been a little hard on him lately but I truly am enjoying myself. He is such a horny beast and would please any mistress.


I am sure there are other more experienced Doms who will be able to help you too.

[Nightstriker]

Everything boils down to confidance and love. Be confidant in your actions and do them with love.

Then after the scenes talk with her and see what she liked about the scene and what she did not. You would be suprised what happened.

[ObsidianCaine]

Confidence is everything.

If you lack confidence then you get nothing, you will not prove you are dominating thus causing you to fail before you even begin. You must take control, absolute control even if she is a strong one, you must be stronger and take that which you know shall be enjoyable. Allow nothing to get in the way, have a safe word in case it goes too far but otherwise do not take no for an answer. Every action, every movement must be done with purpose, control and absolute conviction. If you do not have the fire in your eyes you will not inspire of her your lust and desires.

It all comes down to how you are.