"I don't need BDSM..." is what I answered, but that's not true by any means. None of the other answers really fit me.

I could live completely vanilla and be happy. However, I choose not to because I greatly enjoy this lifestyle and am learning so much. Life without BDSM isn't boring but bearabe, it can still be exciting and fabulous.

I choose BDSM, I don't need it. Well, I don't "need" it as of yet. I'm sure if I continue down this path I've set for myself that choice will become a need.