~runs in and hugs Louise~ What a doll you are! So sweet to me. But why ever would you lead that poor man over to my thread? Do you want to see him flop around like a fish out of water??? ~giggles with the pretty one~

jeanne, excellent ideas you have there!!! I'm stealing everyone of them, okay?

ID, rhabbi and Ocean Soul, all you said about communication was spot-on! JayTC, you did not say too much. What you said was too perfect!

asduke, I'm not a Dom or Master, but I am the one that brought this to my husband, asking if this type relationship would be possible for us. It hasn't been as uncomplicated as I had imagined. Communication is everything and without it, you'll have nothing. And it needs to be constant. Not overwhelmingly so, but almost. And the living together part, with life intruding into the fun all the damn time, can make for difficulties. Ok, I sound like doom and gloom. I'm just trying to be as candid as possible about how it can be when 24/7 is involved.

Search for balance. And when you find the right fit between two souls, even if there is some hell involved, it can be the most incredible heaven on earth.

All my best-
tessa