Hi all, I finally got the gumption to introduce myself, I am 38, single, no children. I have been reading in the Library for a couple of years, and about 7 months ago stumbled (and not gracefully mind you) on to the forum pages. In between fighting a mostly losing battle with my computer, I have learned so much about bdsm in general thru these pages, I appreciate all who contribute their knowledge so that newbies like me may learn.. While never having had a r/l bdsm relationship, I continue to want to learn all there is to know. Opinions vary so much thou, that you guys keep me on my toes. Thank you Wendya