Havensov, I find it fascinating that you learned from your parents. Most of us barely survived the "use a condom" conversation. I can't imagine having a conversation about kink with either of my parents. Don't get me wrong. I think your situation is great....if only we could all be so lucky to be surounded by such understanding people.

When I become interested in something, I usually want to learn as much about it, as soon as possible. I have done a lot of online reading, but haven't made it to any books yet (other than some erotica). But I think my most productive education has come from talking to other people.

That's why I love this place so much.

I would consider D/s to be a very experiential discipline. Yes, you can read books, but that is only one person's experiences, beliefs, and opinions. They are helpful...but not the be all and end all. I prefer to learn from as many people as possible.

I have learned a lot from both my current and previous Dom....each of them guiding me in areas they wanted me to expand in. I have also been fortunate enough to have other Domly friends who are kind enough to put up with my never-ending questions, and will from time to time plant new kinky ideas in my head.

And finally, my relationships with other subs have been invaluable. I can't put into words how much their support, understanding, and friendship means to me.

So that is how I like to learn. I know I am still at the beginning of what I hope to be a long and joyous journey. My goal is really to learn everything about everything (and that's about life, not D/s specific), and make my own opinions.