Ever feel like you're just not in the mood to be a sub?

[katie_21]

Yes!!! Somedays I feel like a sub, somedays I don't lol

[fantassy]

Some days???? How about moments? Sometimes my mood will switch from sub to nonsub in an instant. And sometimes it seems it happens for no good reason. It's very frustrating.

fantassy

[SheepishJaina]

Some days???? How about moments? Sometimes my mood will switch from sub to nonsub in an instant. And sometimes it seems it happens for no good reason. It's very frustrating.

fantassy

I couldn't agree with you more.

[STONE'sSLUT]

Lots of good points & advice! IMO, I look at being a submissive as something that should be mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and physically challenging – at least when we’re doing it “right.” So, when other parts of my life require vast amounts of these energies, it can become difficult to fully commit to specific activities. Sometimes, this can lead to pushing my limits to the next level, but there are times I cannot be pushed any more. I don’t think that changes my being a submissive or changes the nature of my needs & desires, but, if you are anything like me, I don’t like half-assing something so profound & important to me. A move is a huge change in your life & you inevitably have your energies focused on all that entails. So, my advice: don’t be so hard on yourself; focus on the challenges you are facing right now, one at a time; &, perhaps, try looking at “shifting into sub mode” as a source of release after the stresses of daily life rather than a challenging goal that must be achieved. No use feeding the vicious cycle of adding more stress to your life regarding something that should be ultimately pleasurable, IMO. Good luck!

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