good afternoon, i never posted anything like this before so please bear with me, im new here n i dont know where to turn to for information on this whole new world that me n my gf would love to experience. she knew she always was a sub n i always knew i wanted to be a dom in the relationship. so my question is where should we start off at n how do we know what information is good n bad? so any help would greatly be accepted, thank you...