Looking for a Special Girl to mold into my perfect pet.

I'm a 45 Male Dominant. I want a girl that will let me get to know her and take control. I want to start with the small things and work into the bigger. I'm not into causing pain. I'm gentle and easy going, but can be firm and demanding. I'm located in the US midwest, my schedule is fairly predictable but busy. I'm a cybersecurity professional. I will make time for that special someone. From a physical appearance I've got a dad-bod (too many hours behind a desk, but I'm working on that already).

You would be female between 18 - 50. Submissive. Willing to share with me you thoughts, feelings, and follow my instructions.