Lifestyle

Verbal training, our next category, like physical training is multi-faceted, covering numerous areas. Also like all categories, there are natural overlaps between this category and others. Again I will mention that while the specific category exposition posts may be read in any order, for anyone who may have missed Understanding Submissive Training, the overview, I feel it would be useful to read that post ...

The first area of training I will discuss is physical training. Subsequent posts will examine another of the remaining seven categories of submissive training. Later posts may be read in any order, however if you missed it, you might find it useful to read first, Understanding Submissive Training, the introductory post, for background information before proceeding to the individual training area posts. ...

When a novice submissive first hears those fateful words from his or her dominant, “I am ready to begin your training,” or something similar, quite often the heart skips a beat, the pulse quickens, the eyes widen, the brow furrows and the stomach flutters.

By the time we enter into a relationship with a dominant, typically we have acknowledged if not embraced our submissive nature and we have ...

The roots of our society are patriarchal, an environment where a male-dominated society was perceived as normative. Gender roles were narrowly construed. Women, the “weaker sex” were cast in the submissive role. Males were portrayed as the socially powerful, physically strong and aggressive gender. The movement towards gender equality and flexibility has been slow.

Being Raised as a Male ...

Stage six of the well-known stages of BDSM growth, is the “Partner Search” stage. For the submissive that means beginning an active search for a dominant to submit to and to fill that often intense longing, “I want to be trained.”

For novice submissive males, stage six is the next step in the logical progression from the previous five stages: discovery, over coming fears, the first steps of ...